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"No one cares about you" does not mean that no one thinks they care about you, but rather that everyone lacks the "reason" and "feasibility" to truly care for someone. https://t.me/telebookstall/2071 The "reason" is that "caring" is not unconditional, but conditional. Secretly caring in one's heart does not count as caring because it is meaningless to others. "Caring" must act upon another person to be called "caring." > See: [Observable Person](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/observable-person) [telegraph](https://telegra.ph/observable-person-03-12) If we want to have an impact on a group, we must take on an identity disguise. Even if this disguise does not fit well, we must wear it. Because the disguise is not created by individuals, nor does it exist for individuals. If I am just a delivery person, my role in relation to you is very clear: to deliver food from the merchant to you as the consumer. As for my secret practice of the Sunflower Scripture at home, it has no impact on this society. Consumers will not give me bad or good reviews because I secretly practice the Sunflower Scripture. And the group does not give me a disguise as a practitioner of the Sunflower Scripture because of this. Therefore, individuals do not necessarily have an impact on the group; only observable people have an impact on the group. Thus, caring is not a personal matter; it requires at least the cooperation of two people, such as acceptance. The condition for caring is a cooperative relationship in life relationships. Both parties must gain mutually recognized benefits, which requires energy and may not be easily obtained. > See: [Life Relationships | Cooperative Relationships](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/life-relationship#user-content-%E5%90%88%E4%BD%9C%E5%85%B3%E7%B3%BB) However, between different life forms, there is generally a predatory relationship, followed by a coexistence relationship. As for higher-level cooperation, it is too difficult. Except for a few life forms that have evolved over a long time, the vast majority of life forms can only cooperate and coexist if they possess sufficient intelligence. That said, if cooperation and mutual benefit cannot be achieved, coexistence relationships are unstable and can easily evolve into predatory relationships due to changes in the environment or resource scarcity. "Feasibility" means that a person has the ability and possibility to care for another person. Even if both parties have reasons to care, this care cannot be highly comprehensive; others cannot know your inner feelings unless you express them (of course, others can also know, but it requires technology or future technology). At a deeper level, it is individualism; our feelings about the world must be presented by ourselves. > See: [Individualism | Individual and Individual](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/individualism#user-content-%E4%B8%AA%E4%BD%93%E4%B8%8E%E4%B8%AA%E4%BD%93) Therefore, [mutual support is not as good as forgetting each other in the world](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/firstlove-sex-Castration). The reason for all this is that there are two insurmountable chasms between individuals. If we want to connect with each other, we can only rely on the bridge of rules. Even the thinnest bridge of rules requires material support. A stable relationship inevitably requires the establishment of more bridges of rules, but this stability is not what many people desire. What they want is affection within the individual, and apart from the self, there is nothingness within the individual. This is [the heartless person](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/heartless-person#%E6%97%A0%E6%83%85%E7%9A%84%E4%BA%BA). So, "as for value, I will not fill it in here."